Wooing

If you've read Ravyn's Flight you know Alex is very closed, afraid to risk himself. In the spin off book, he and Stacey are the secondary romance again and I've reached a point where he realizes he has to woo her if he wants to keep her. Only Alex doesn't woo. It's more like a siege. I just can't figure out what, exactly, he'd do--and he's not talking. Sigh.